My l'esprit de l'escalier

"Why Society Still Needs Feminism Because to men, a key is a device to open something. For women,..."

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:09:02 -0400

“Why Society Still Needs Feminism Because to men, a key is a device to open something. For...

All the childhood memories….. I still make these badboys...

Fri, 14 Jun 2013 17:59:20 -0400

All the childhood memories….. I still make these badboys :)

At the pool, enjoying the sun and a book (that is not related to...

Thu, 13 Jun 2013 20:58:00 -0400

At the pool, enjoying the sun and a book (that is not related to school/psychology!!) for the first time in over a year.

All is well.

Grad school nights.

Sun, 09 Jun 2013 15:36:23 -0400

Grad school nights.

A little help to get through a lot of writing…

Thu, 06 Jun 2013 21:36:00 -0400

A little help to get through a lot of writing…

This is me facing my thesis, despite the fact that I feel like I...

Thu, 06 Jun 2013 20:36:51 -0400

This is me facing my thesis, despite the fact that I feel like I can’t do it sometimes…

"Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels...."

Wed, 05 Jun 2013 09:16:58 -0400

“Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that...

"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate..."

Mon, 03 Jun 2013 16:58:38 -0400

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul...

I just got my first smartphone and am using it to document that...

Mon, 03 Jun 2013 15:32:46 -0400

I just got my first smartphone and am using it to document that I am going running today.

Nothing feels better than a bike ride the morning after a storm

Sat, 01 Jun 2013 19:23:17 -0400

Or after a winter of inactivity… Best friends :)

Sex+: likesboyswholikeboys: you can preach about slut-shaming all you want,...

Sat, 01 Jun 2013 11:25:22 -0400

Sex+: likesboyswholikeboys: you can preach about slut-shaming all you want,...:...

theburiedlife: Here are ten ideas for writing a life story...

Tue, 28 May 2013 23:54:21 -0400

theburiedlife:

Here are ten ideas for writing a life story worth living:

Find a passion that makes you come alive. – Each new day is a blank page in the story of your life. The secret is in turning that blank page into the best chapter you possibly can. Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs, and what every great story has, are characters who have come alive in the pursuit of something that inspires them.

Work hard on that passion. – The best dreams happen when you’re wide awake and working hard on something you’re passionate about. A dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. You must break out of your current comfort zone and become comfortable with the new and unfamiliar. So dream big, pursue your passion, and give yourself permission to work toward a future you know you are capable of creating. Read The 4-Hour Workweek.

Live happily in your own way. – You are not in this world to live up to the expectations of others, nor should you feel that others are here to liveup to yours. Pave your own unique path. What success means to each of us is totally different. Success to some may mean fancy cars and homes. Success to others may mean being a good parent, spouse, or friend. For others, it may mean to simply be happy. Or it can be all of the above. Remember, success is ultimately about spending your life happily in your own way.

Change your path when you must, but keep moving forward. – There are thousands of possible paths one could take up the mountain of life. You get to choose which one you take, and you can jump from one path to another if you run into a hazardous road block. All of these paths are unique, but lead in a similar general direction, so it really doesn’t matter which path you start off on. The only mistake you can make is by wasting time running around at the base of the mountain, telling everyone that your life path is wrong.

When the going gets tough, keep fighting. – The wisest, most loving, well rounded people you have met are likely those who have known failure, known defeat, known suffering, and have found their way out of the depths of their own despair. These people have experienced many ups and downs, and have gained an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, understanding, and a deep loving concern. People like this aren’t born; they develop slowly over the course of a lifetime. Read The Road Less Traveled.

Let go of the past and live consciously in the present. – Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. The past is a good place to visit on occasion, but not a great place to stay. Don’t sit around trying to relive or change your past when you have priceless moments unfolding in front of you and your entire future to look forward to.

Embrace new ideas, lessons, and challenges. – Sometimes growing up means growing apart from old habits, relationships, and situations, and finding something new that truly moves you. There is nothing more wonderful than seeing life as an adventure. You should try things that you’re afraid of. You should look very clearly into the unknown and enjoy it. Because when you come in contact with things that you don’t know, that’s when you’re learning, growing, and truly living.

Appreciate the little things in life that mean a lot. – What if you woke up tomorrow with only the things you were thankful for today? Think of all the beauty that remains around you, and be happy. Be thankful for all the small things in your life, because when you put them all together you will see just how significant they are. Remember, it’s not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy. Read The Happiness Project.

Live honorably through kindness. – If you live honorably, no matter how old you get, you’ll never lose your beauty; it will just gradually shift from your face to your heart. And remember, there is no better exercise for the heart than reaching out and holding the hand of someone in need.

Spend quality time with people you love. – Lost time is never found again. People don’t live forever. Appreciate what you have, who loves you and who cares for you. You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they are no longer beside you. Spend lots of quality time with the people you love. Someday you will either regret not doing so, or you will say, “I’m glad I did.”

"Live on coffee and flowers. Try not to worry what the weather will be."

Thu, 23 May 2013 22:08:40 -0400

“Live on coffee and flowers. Try not to worry what the weather will be.” - Matt...

"For most of life, nothing wonderful happens. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and finishing..."

Thu, 23 May 2013 21:51:28 -0400

““For most of life, nothing wonderful happens. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and...

headlikeanorange: Chicago (apa) This never get’s old....

Thu, 23 May 2013 21:45:44 -0400

headlikeanorange:

Chicago (apa)

This never get’s old. See you soon Chicago!

A lot of old memories have popped up lately

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:12:02 -0400

Mostly memories from two years ago. Memories of biking on the Chicago streets in the sunshine....

When my favorite song comes on

Mon, 20 May 2013 21:42:56 -0400

hap-pen-stance: whatshouldwecallme: Yeah!!!

haygirlhay: vneckandacardigan: First trailer for Arrested...

Mon, 13 May 2013 10:13:41 -0400

haygirlhay:

vneckandacardigan:

First trailer for Arrested Development - Season 4!

All I care about for the foreseeable future.

I CANNOT wait!

I have never felt more naked...

Sun, 05 May 2013 20:45:33 -0400

than the time I ran into one of my client’s and his mother, and then took the same kickboxing...

"I made an important decision, which was to pursue happiness. Rather than accept unhappiness."

Thu, 02 May 2013 09:37:40 -0400

“I made an important decision, which was to pursue happiness. Rather than accept...